Queer single papa
Non-binary birther

My Journey...

What Being Non-Binary Means To Me

One of the things that I love so much about gender and identity is that even when two people share the same identity, their definitions and experiences within that identity can be very different. This means one person’s experiences should never be the go-to narrative for an entire community. This also means that if you…
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One Month On Testosterone!

I didn’t realize how far from me I was until I stared coming back towards myself. I’m officially one month back on testosterone this week after being off of it for almost two years. I didn’t go off  in the beginning for any reason other then self-care was hard for me at the time and…
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A Worst Fear – Happening

It happened. It finally happened yesterday, but I still find myself questioning if it was infused by my postpartum OCD and anxiety or if I responded appropriately. Or perhaps, it was both. I live in the most beautiful place buried in the woods down a gravel drive about a mile long. I live on a…
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Faith Over Fear – My Favorite Donor Milk Story

I want to share an experience with you all that moved me to tears and yesterday and perhaps, may move you to tears as well. You see, one of the things that I was the most scared to try and do with Wilder has turned out to be one of the most profound forms of…
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Postpartum Depression and Psychosis Check-in

It’s been two months now since reaching my breaking point, a place that led to a three day hospital stay and required me to change almost everything. I want to take some time to talk more about how I’m doing now and what I’ve done to fuel and foster my own healing over the last…
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She Got Me So Good!

I feel drawn to sharing more about Deanna, my twin sister, today. Well, there is one story in particular that sums up our relationship quite well. And it also happens to by my favorite to tell. My heart has been so heavy for my sister while her husband has been in the hospital, and this…
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Meet Danny


I thrive and survive in this world through connecting with myself, with others, both human and animal, and with mother nature. I believe we're all connected and that simply showing up as our authentic selves and doing the next right thing is how we can live the most purpose fulfilled life.